Sunday, February 15, 2009

OhGodNoPlease

Every once and a while I find a postcard on postsecret that either I hope is for me or I could have sent myself. I saw this one and both could apply to me. It actually made me laugh out loud because I've had this exact thought before. And I think the hopeless romantic in me also thinks that someone may have thought this to themselves about me at one point or another. It's also pretty ironic that I'm watching Romeo and Juliet right now (the 90's one with Leo DiCaprio and Claire Danes). I also successfully got through another Valentine's day without caving to the marketing stunts of the local chocolate, card, and flowers corporations. The older I get the more I realize that one shouldn't feel required by some pre-determined day to tell someone you love them. It should be random. Why Feb 14? Why not Sept 23 or June 11? (I know the whole story of the priest or monk or whatever he was shuttling letters between lovers...but still)

Not to mention that Valentine's has been ruined for me again this year. With the awkwardly strange ex asking me on a date, and when I turned him down showed his true asshole colors and proceeded to tell me he wasn't interested in dating me and I'm too busy with school for his liking. Oh yes people, he said that. After asking me on a date. Glad to know I learned yet another lesson. You can't be friends with ex's. I'm also starting to wonder if you can be friends with men at all without some other motive behind it all.

And with all my luck with men, people wonder why I've just said "screw it" and have resolved to become the cat lady.

1 comment:

2cool2care said...

Hahaha I think it's funny how much you hate guys.. Personally I have had really really really good female friends with no alternitive motive other than being friends although sometimes its inevitable to get feelings for someone who you like spending time with, so yeah idk all guy are different but if i get the message that my friend doesnt want more then I just leave it at that and remain friends..

Not all guys suck...